If you want to initiate sex with your spouse, but are not sure how – try these 3 ideas to help you out!
It’s always fun to look at some of the ways people arrive at our website. What we have learned is that you might be looking for ways to initiate sex with your spouse.
The reason I say that is because some of the phrases people use to find Stupendous Marriage are really interesting like “I am uncomfortable initiating sex with my wife“, “how to initiate sex with husband“, “how to get your husbands attention sexually“, “why don’t wives initiate sex?” Just to point out a few.
Today, I wanted to offer 3 Quick Tips to initiate sex with your spouse.
1. Use Signals To Alert Your Spouse You Are In The Mood.
Sometimes there is a stigma – or pressure with who starts what, when. So, use a signal. A code word, a candle lit on the table , a familiar love song, a certain piece of clothing, a favorite meal, a certain dessert, a rose in a vase displayed on the table. You decide what the signal is, and what it means.
2. Be Direct.
Instead of hemming and hawing, say, “I would like to be intimate with you, when can we connect to make that happen?” Or just show up naked.
3. Take Turns.
If you find that one of you initiates more often than the other, balance it out by taking turns. Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo suggest you break the week up 3/3/1 . You have 3 days to initiate sex and so does your spouse (and one day off). At least once during your 3 days, step up and make something happen in the intimacy department. Their book deals with all types of intimacy. (aff link)
What makes initiating sex with your spouse difficult?
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