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Over the past weeks, we have been honored to be featured on several great marriage blogs – take a second to check out our post at One Flesh Marriage and HappilyMarriedAfter!

Our One Flesh Marriage article was focused on answering one question: If there was only one thing from the story of your marriage that you could share, what would it be?

My response started here: Let’s start from the beginning. While my wife Lisa and I were dating, she discovered that I had a problem with looking at pornography. It became the ‘elephant in the room’ in our relationship… we both knew it was there, but rarely talked about it. After we were married, I knew that something had to change, but didn’t know where to start… continue reading

On HappilyMarriedAfter, we were honored to be part of “Sex” Month! David asked me to talk a bit about pornography addiction and marriage.

I wanted to be a better man, a better husband and father. I didn’t want to be someone who caused hurt, pain and resentment with my decisions to look at pornography (I could cause those feelings in other ways, and I didn’t need viewing porn to fan those flames).

I also wanted to be the man who stood up for God and made a difference in the life of my son. I wanted to break the generational disintegration that seemed to be happening in the men in my family. ..continue reading

Check these out if pornography is an issue in your marriage!

 

Porn Stats: Research by Mars Hill Church

by stugray on 03/05/2012

Just caught this infographic from Mars Hill Church. While it’s not an easy or fun topic to talk about, pornography is something that needs to be addressed for lots of married couples.

Read more at Mars Hill’s Website

Prayer and Fasting: Good for Your Mind and Marriage

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Fasting as a tool to help your marriage. Taking the time to lay something down and Ask God what he wants to do in your relationship can be a good thing.

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Stop Reading Marriage Blogs: 3 Tips For When You Are Done With Marriage Advice

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If you are overwhelmed by Marriage advice, perhaps you should take a time out and reflect on what you have learned. Then ACT on it.

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Rackin’ up the Love Bucks

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I was having lunch with my friend Brian recently, and he was telling me of a challenge that he was taking part in. I wanted to pass it along to you, because I think its a great idea…and one you may have heard, but never done. The Love Buck Experiment The story my friend told [...]

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Adding Fruit to Your Sex Life

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…Fruit of the spirit that is. I am sure that adding physical fruit to your sex life would be fun, but that’s a post for another day! Galatians 5:22-23 says this: But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is [...]

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Join Stu and Lisa Friday Night at WindFarm Cafe

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Stu and Lisa Gray will be speaking at Windfarm Cafe in Spring Hill, TN this Friday Night. WindFarm is a Ministry of the Daily Audio Bible (www.dailyaudiobible.com)

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Love is in the Air: The Top 10 Posts from January 2012

The Top 10 Most Read Posts from January 2012 at Stupendous Marriage

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