Stupendous Articles

Nov. 13, 2023

Stupendous Marriage Is On Medium!

I wanted to let you know that I am writing about marriage on Medium! If you want to check out the latest, just click here to check it out. Hope to see you there!   Stu

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Nov. 4, 2023

How do you Keep Learning About Your Spouse?

My wife Lisa naps for 13, 17, and 21 minute intervals.Not 10, not 15, not 20.But, it took me 20 years to learn this. I saw her set an alarm on her phone for one of her power naps one day earlier this year, and I asked her: You nap for 1…

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Aug. 9, 2023

Husbands: Don't always Try to Solve her Problems. Listen instead!

This was one of my most popular tweets (when Twitter was Still Twitter, back in the early 2023s!🤣)   It seemed to resonate with many wives whose husbands love to fix stuff.   I'm one of those guys - this tweet was a remin…

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July 30, 2023

How Can You Revive Your Marriage? Here's 4 Ways

The “Throwaway Mentality” is everywhere in our society! Use it, then trash it…we live in a world of fast, now and next! (How many old cell phones do I have sitting in my house? Six.) I was reading an article that suggested in t…

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May 23, 2023

I asked ChatGPT The Best Way to Improve Marriage...Here's What It Said

I decided to take Chat GPT for a spin. In my work, I talk a lot to husbands who want more out of their lives and relationships. So, with all the AI hubbub, I wanted to see what it would spit out. Here’s the prompt I wrote: I was l…

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March 27, 2023

Discovering the Power of Serving Your Spouse in Sickness and Health 🤢

Flu Sucks. It hit our house hard this past 7 days. Our family room’s a wreck. Blankets, kleenex, paper plates, thermometers, an assortment of DoTerra oils and Vicks Vaporub litter the terrain. It’s about time for a deep clean. Can I …

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Dec. 29, 2022

🙏 Husbands: Have a Better Prayer Life by Working on Your Marriage

What if we husbands did exactly what 1 Peter 3:7 says? …you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gif…

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Jan. 1, 2010

The Birth of a Stupendous Marriage

After nearly crashing my marriage, I learned how to do marriage better and help others in their own marriages. “Success is tying up your failures and then standing on them.” — Dave Ramsey “A bird doesn’t sing because …

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March 3, 2009

Never Put Them Down in Public

Do you think that you would never call your husband “stupid” out loud to other people? You are probably right, but you might be surprised what you HAVE communicated topeople about your spouse. Ladies, how many times have you been in a …

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March 3, 2009

Act Like You're On the Same Team

Its easy to become defensive with each other - especially if you haven’t spent much time together lately, or have little one running around that demand your time. Little things can get on your nerves. Lisa often reminds me that we're on the …

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